Signs he is avoiding you through text

Do you have someone in your life either personally or professionally who seems to intentionally avoid you, deliberately cuts conversations short, or looks right past you at social events? If so, you might wonder whether you are perceptive or paranoid.

But if you have consciously attempted to connect with such a person more than once, you may be correct in your assessment that such behavior does not indicate inadvertence, but avoidance. Selective dismissal is particularly painful when the person, who is not interested in socializing with you, does respond to others.

Why would a guy ignore you all of a sudden

For many people, the ultimate insult is indifference. Some people still remember the sting of a (former) best friend’s assessment of how important you were to your high school crush: “She/he doesn’t even know you exist.” Ouch.

Perceived insignificance adds insult to emotional injury. But when indifference is exhibited by someone who clearly knows you, is there an alternative explanation?

Friendship Material vs. Forbidden Fruit

Your first consideration, as a practical matter, is whether your desire to form a relati

when she is avoiding you

when your boyfriend is avoiding you